One thing I’ve been reflecting on from my recent coaching sessions is this: Many people want to improve their self-leadership but that can be too generic. What that actually looks like depends a lot on how you are wired to grow. In my reflection quiz, I identified four common growth archetypes that show up across […]

Growing up in a girls’ school for ten years, surrounded by a family of strong women, I was shaped  (almost without realising it till I reflected on it) into someone who tries to show up with that same strength. But the women who influenced me most weren’t just strong. They were kind, inspiring, wise and […]

The real work of coaching isn’t fixing problems.It’s helping people learn how to lead themselves. Most people come to coaching looking to fix something specific: a career decision, a difficult relationship, time management, burnout, transitions. And while we work on those things, what we’re really working on in reality is something much deeper and sustainable […]

This month, a theme kept surfacing in my own inner world, and in the conversations I was having with clients. I’ve been calling it emotional drift. It’s that quiet pull that happens when thoughts start running the show. One thought leads to another, and before you know it, you’re deep in a spiral – analyzing, […]

Many people live with a persistent sense of “something missing”. It often sounds like: “I should be happier than this.” “Once I get X, I’ll feel settled.” “Why does contentment never last?” “I always find something to want.” This isn’t entitlement or ingratitude. It’s often a mix of temperament, early wiring, and coping style. Some […]

“I don’t think I can find someone else like that again.” “Online dating is exhausting.” “It’s scary being alone.” I hear these a lot in my 1-1 coaching sessions and conversations with friends who’ve gone through breakups. And I get it – the fear underneath them is very real. But often, when the pull to […]

After writing about depth and breadth in relationships, the other concept I wanted to write about is the relationship with ourselves vs others. In my coaching work, this is actually where we spend a lot of time . Underneath all the goals, decisions, habits, tradeoffs, it almost always traces back to how someone relates to […]