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February 26, 2026

This month, a theme kept surfacing in my own inner world, and in the conversations I was having with clients. I’ve been calling it emotional drift. It’s that quiet pull that happens when thoughts start running the show. One thought leads to another, and before you know it, you’re deep in a spiral – analyzing, […]

February 19, 2026

“I don’t think I can find someone else like that again.” “Online dating is exhausting.” “It’s scary being alone.” I hear these a lot in my 1-1 coaching sessions and conversations with friends who’ve gone through breakups. And I get it – the fear underneath them is very real. But often, when the pull to […]

January 29, 2026

Something kept surfacing in my recent 1-1 coaching sessions as people looked back on 2025 and planned for 2026: the desire to improve their friendships. It got me thinking about something Sahil Bloom talked about recently on ambivalent relationships. Those friendships where you’re not sure if you feel better or worse after hanging out. The […]

January 14, 2026

Building self-trust is one of the most common areas my clients and I work together on and also one of the most misunderstood. We’ve been sold myths like ‘just be confident’ and ‘think positive.’ But those surface-level mantras don’t create lasting change because they don’t address what’s actually keeping you stuck. I’m sharing Amanda’s story […]

November 28, 2025

You’ve done the therapy. Read the books. Know your triggers. So why are you still running the same loops? You’re not someone who avoids self-reflection. You’ve journaled. Done the personality tests. Read the self-help books. Maybe even tried therapy. You know your patterns. You can name your triggers. You understand why you react the way […]

November 25, 2025

Growth doesn’t always mean doing more. Sometimes it means learning to lead differently, with clarity, calm and trust. Bryan’s journey over the past year reminded me that success CAN feel good. When Bryan first reached out ~1 year ago, he was on a sabbatical from his consulting job – he wanted to build his own […]

November 3, 2025

Something that came up in a few of my 1-1 coaching sessions this week – the fine line between stretching and straining. We often think that growth is about pushing harder, doing more, keeping up momentum.But not all action means progress. Sometimes, the real progress happens when we pause to notice what zone we are […]

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